It is with heavy hearts that we announce the peaceful passing of Marian Harris, a woman whose love, care and infectious happiness touched the lives of everyone fortunate enough to know her. Surrounded by her devoted husband of 65 years, Grant, and their three children and their families, Marian became our guardian angel on February 3, 2024.
Born in Calgary, Alberta, to Mary (Mae) and Stanley Ellison. Marian’s mom and dad had a huge impact on how she lived her life. Despite losing her father at the tender age of 16, she carried his wisdom close to her heart - "Embrace every day with a smile, and your day will always be bright." Her year in Scotland at 21 further deepened her connection to her mother's Scottish heritage, shaping her life with traditions she held dear.
Marian met the love of her life, Grant Harris, during her tenure as an operator at Alberta General Telephone (AGT). In a charming twist of fate, during a lunch break when male technicians monopolized all available tables and chairs, Marian, determined and unyielding, found a creative solution by playfully sitting on Grant. This bold move left an indelible impression, ultimately paving the way for an enduring marriage that spanned 65 years. From this remarkable union, a family of five blossomed with the arrival of Bonnie, Allen, and Carol.
Marian helped create a family home that was a haven of warmth and affection, where mornings began with her radiant smile and the warmth of her famous "Mom Hug." Her embrace was more than a gesture; it was a profound expression of love that enveloped you, making you feel safe and cherished.
Marian imparted the wisdom to everyone that she met that “A hug speaks volumes beyond a simple handshake”. Each member of the family continues to embrace this wisdom with their families and friends.
Throughout her career, Marian's choices reflected her innate need to spread joy. From her early days as a telephone operator to supplementing the family income with Avon and Tupperware sales, and later as a beloved security guard at the BC Tel office in Prince George and then Simon Fraser University in Burnaby. Marian, also known as “Mom Harris” had this infectious spirit that left an indelible mark on all that she met thanks to her smile and happy presence.
Marian and Grant found immense joy in their shared passion for camping. Every weekend when their children were young, they eagerly packed them up for adventures by the lakes and amidst nature, creating cherished moments and invaluable memories for the family. As retirement beckoned, they sold their family home and embraced a nomadic lifestyle, residing in their trailer as they traversed Canada and ventured down through the United States. Their initial year-long retirement adventure laid the foundation for a decade of continuous exploration, as they discovered diverse campsites and cultivated friendships at every stop. Renowned for their warm hospitality, Marian and Grant delighted in hosting campsite happy hours, adding an extra layer of camaraderie to their love for travel.
Wherever the family settled, Marian's boundless love and nurturing demeanor invariably extended to include another "adopted" family member. Whether someone found themselves alone during a holiday or in need of a bed for the night, or even a place to stay during their university or college years, our home offered a welcoming haven. Marian and Grant seamlessly assumed the roles of adopted parents, fondly known as Mom and Dad Harris, to an ever-expanding circle of their children's friends.
Marian's love was not only boundless but also reciprocated by all who encountered her, owing to her consistent display of gratitude towards those who exhibited kindness, compassion, and assistance to her. This attribute became increasingly evident in her later years as her healthcare needs grew more pronounced. Whether interacting with a housekeeper tidying up, a nurse attending to her, or a doctor overseeing her care, Marian unfailingly expressed her gratitude, never taking anyone for granted. Her expressions of appreciation were invariably accompanied by a warm smile and a heartfelt "I love you," leaving an enduring impression on all fortunate enough to be part of her caregiving journey.
Marian exemplified extraordinary courage and resilience. Despite grappling with various pains and health challenges, she steadfastly refrained from complaining or letting adversity hinder her progress; instead, she consistently wore a smile and insisted, "I am fine, I am happy." Her unwavering commitment to embracing life to the fullest, irrespective of challenges, served as a powerful influence on those around her. Many held Marian in high regard for her indomitable strength and the inspiring example she set for navigating life's difficulties with grace and positivity.
Marian's legacy will live on in everyone’s memory through the sparkle in her eye, her rosy cheeks, her laughter, her booming voice, her kisses, and, above all, her incredible "Mom Hugs."
Marian is predeceased by her parents, Mae and Stanley Ellison, her brother Jack Ellison, and her cherished granddaughter Mary Crichton.
Marian will be deeply missed by her dedicated husband of 65 years, Grant, her children Bonnie (Larry), Allen (Alphonse), Carol (Todd), and grandchildren Shaun, Sarah, and Robert.
Until we meet again, Marian's spirit will continue to shine brightly in our hearts and we will all remember her father’s words of wisdom - "Embrace every day with a smile, and your day will always be bright" along with her own words of wisdom - “A hug speaks volumes beyond a simple handshake”.
At the request of Marian, there will be no formal Celebration of Life service. Her family will gather privately to share cherished memories and reflect on their beautiful wife and mother.
For those who wish to extend their condolences and share their fond memories, the family kindly requests that condolence cards be mailed to Carol Crichton at 2650 West 5th Ave, Vancouver BC V6K 1T3.
In lieu of flowers, contributions in Marian's memory can be made to the Yaletown House Foundation, 1099 Cambie Street, Vancouver BC V6B 5A8 (https://www.yaletown.org/donate/). The caring staff at Yaletown House enabled Marian to live her final days with Grant by her side surrounded by love and support. Her name will forever grace their Memorial Wall thanks to your donations, a testament to a life well-lived and a love that endures.